New Jersey, New Genders, New Strategies
The LGBTQ+ Coup of the American Family
New Jersey parents, brace yourself. The transgender agenda is on the hunt for your children. Getting a head start on the new National Sex Education Standards that will be required by law for all NJ public schools by the 2022-23 school year, parents were caught off guard when their Pearl R. Miller middle schoolers received a lesson from a female to male (FTM) transactivist before the 2021-22 academic year ended.
Thus began a PITT post titled “Gender Voodoo in New Jersey Classrooms” (May 2022). It starred FTM social media influencer Aydian Dowling, a repeat offender here at Desexing. But for the mockingbird media, news of this atrocity might have slowed further agendas. Some advocacy groups and outlets did take note, but the NJ Department of Education had other ideas. NJ has since regressed into a transgender “safe haven” as part of a new strategy to keep the gender ruse in operation. A summary of the prior post is offered along with an overview of the medical/ industrial/ political prison that is being constructed using LGBTQ+ initiatives to capture American families.
The dust had not settled when 2 months after Dowling’s presentation, a national trans refuge strategy was unleashed across states with the economic mind to forgo citizens concerns and children’s health for a rising corporate world order. Leading the charge were LGBTQ+ Victory Institute, CA Senator Scott Wiener, Equality CA and Planned Parenthood Affiliates of CA. Victory Institute funding comes from many of gender industry’s usual suspects. John Stryker and his Arcus Foundation as well as Tim Gill and the Gill Foundation are among them.
The legislation was drafted by Wiener, a homosexual man who has made claim to taking HIV prevention medication. He has been wielding the LGBTQ+ legislative sword in CA for decades. The city of San Francisco secured the nation’s first Synthetic Sex Insurance policy 20 years ago. Wiener helped. His questionable campaign contributions from big industry include Bay Area native Gilead Pharmaceuticals, a company embroiled in HIV drug scandals. Today wide coverage is available for transgender “care,” the LGBTQ political army grows, and “safe haven” states are committed as ever to industry growth.
Dowling and her FTM peers are gender industry’s golden girls. Indoctrinated, medically abused, and now turning clicks to cash as digital influencers, it is their job to lure young females into breast-less, drug fueled, and sometimes porn addicted lives. If there is good news it is that today Dowling’s YouTube channel of over 15 years is now unavailable to her 80k+ subscribers. Previous posts have exposed the feeding frenzy of platforms, products, industry, and influencers sucking gullible youth away from their truth. FTM Digital Footprints though cannot be erased, nor can Dowling’s shenanigans exposed in other posts.

Dowling’s short film, Ten Years on Testosterone, was presented at the middle school and later followed by a Zoom presentation by the activist herself as part of a program on adversity and resilience.
Dowling’s film is a must watch but do keep children away. It opens with the soft spoken 21-year-old activist informing the viewer, “I recently found YouTube and from the moment I found it I wanted to make a video…but I felt like I really would not have anything to say.” The music rolls as image after image of the smiling influencer is flashed upon the screen culminating with her appearance on The Ellen DeGeneres Show. Now sporting a deep voice, a beard, and best of all an audience, this marketing wizardry has enticed countless spellbound victims to join the FTM club. Influencers guide victims in claiming “gender dysphoria.” Professionals affirm diagnoses. Money is made. Patients are harmed.
In 2012 Dowling launched a nonprofit called Point5cc. In a Men’s Health article (now digitally vaporized) she was recognized for the man she is not. The truth of her nonprofit name is offered. “In October 2009, Dowling began his [sic] first dose of hormone replacement therapy (HRT), and since then, has injected 0.5 ccs of testosterone in his [sic] muscles every week,” read the article. Yes, the injected dosage for the experimental, off label, Class 3 anabolic steroid promoted to girls was the namesake of her organization. Medical backgrounds are not needed to decipher this clever moniker when digital devices grace the pockets of every teenager. Point5cc became Point of Pride in 2021. Was promoting a drug dosage too risky?
“I was 21 years old with no language to describe the way I was and no one to turn to,” explains Dowling in the film. YouTube offered both language and outlet to express her newfound identity.
The very first injection is plunged into a young smooth thigh beckoning stressed females. Seconds later an injection is plunged into a hairy masculinized thigh, 10 years post testosterone. Dowling is there to deliver a message. The message is medicine, not womanhood.
Dowling’s attire resonates with girls aching to escape an over-sexualized world. The letter “T” usurps an “S” on a t-shirt emblazoned with the Superman/ Superwoman symbol. Male and female? They are murdered by medicine, on t-shirts sold to children.
“I am enough,” splashes across other t-shirts once sold by Point5cc. This is not creativity, but mimicry. “Trans enough” slogans exploded on Reddit, Tumblr, YouTube, and other platforms long ago. Campaigns launched. Industry bait is all it is. Platforms and medicine are now entwined in a destructive dance luring prey. Female victims swell alongside the female “be kind” brigade in education and medicine.
A cap with the super “T” adorns Aydian’s short locks while another cap sits behind on a sales rack. “.5” shines in bright blue lettering. “Gender dysphoria?” No. Medical marketing.
Dowling’s surgically altered chest flashes repeatedly nudging young females to end their teenage misery. Nature is out. God’s gifts matter not.
Campus Harms
FTM Arlen Kerndt produced Ten Years on Testosterone. Her website lists but one film, and it is not this one. Was indoctrinating middle schoolers too much? The listed film features a blue dildo and the line, “I did not come here to suck on some latex lollipop.” She calls her work “social justice, mobilization, and empathy building.” It does not compute.
Kerndt received a degree in media production and technology from Virginia Commonwealth University (VCU) in 2019. Identities had begun to sweep across higher ed by the early 2000s. A search for “LGB” on the VCU website brings up 7 hits; “LGBT,” 87 hits; “LGBTQ,” 202 hits; “LGBTQ+” 223 hits. “Cyborg” gets 18 hits. The first hit was 2024.
In 2013 VCU’s Women’s Studies department went inclusive becoming the Department of Gender, Sexuality and Women’s Studies. Digital documentation followed suit in 2020 in an initiative known as Call Me By My Name.
Faculty can take a 90 minute seminar (Gender: Beyond the Binary) to help understand these massive changes to cultural norms and reality itself. For students a pop-up course (I’m Coming Out) can help confusion roar to life.
The counseling program offers resources for enough identities to make a student’s head spin. Neurodiverse? First generation student? Gender Identity? Sexual identity? Men and Masculine-Identified? They have it all. None of this is unique to VCU. Similar agendas are being rolled out across higher ed.
From Feminism to Cyborg
Have institutions welcomed identities for digital and synthetic futures? In 1985 feminist Donna Haraway penned “A Cyborg Manifesto: Science, Technology, and Socialist-Feminism in the late Twentieth Century” calling on feminists to use technology for social progress as the Reagan era moved culture to the right. She argued against a shared experience of womanhood. Technology is seen as a means of liberation from the physical. But is it when man is beholden to the masters of technology for-every-single-thing even procreation?
“Patriarchy” and “feminism” can be screamed until blue in the face but look beyond. Massive backing lurks in the shadows of these social change agendas. The technocratic state with scientism reigning over reality is nearing. Female empathy is useful to push the cause they cannot see.
From Campus to Clinic
At some point (internet detail missing) the VCU campus clinic began medical indoctrinations. An army to infect younger generations has been built. Children’s Hospital of Richmond at VCU went on to open its gender synthetic sex indoctrination clinic (date also missing). Now it is 2025 and the children’s clinic claims to have closed. Dangerous mental health services and NGO resources remain offerings.
Among resources are local LGBTQ+ NGOs that have exploded across the country since AIDS came to town. Side by Side began as Richmond Organization for Sexual Minority Youth in 1991, added trans to its initiatives in 2011, and was rebranded to Side by Side in 2016. VCU’s own Brandcenter was responsible for the new name. Did Kerndt also discover her personal branding at VCU? Side by Side does not disappoint with support groups, trainings, housing, and even clinical support letters. As for VCU students (19+), they remain fair game for gender’s medical onslaught.
Gender Spectrum’s Stephanie Brill helped construct the west coast gender system alongside FTM Aidan Key’s Gender Diversity beginning in the early 2000’s. They both worked in gender clinics; one in San Francisco, the other in Seattle. Around the same time Caitlyn Ryan’s Family Acceptance Project got underway at another institution of higher learning professing medical subjugation over natural bodies. These organizations are major players in building this destructive cult. They are resources digitally shared across institutions.
NJ Transgender Hub
In 2023, after succumbing to “safe haven” status, NJ launched a Transgender Information Hub. Want to keep your kids safe? Fight it or move.
Puberty blockers under the guise of “gender dysphoria” are fair game in the state. At age 13 children can begin wrong sex hormones. Surgical guidelines follow WPATH standards. In other words they are lax, and with parental support, children are meat for monsters. NJ has plenty of options for services.
NJ gender ‘expert’ Jonathan Keith is a founding member of the Society of Gender Surgeons established in 2016. In 2018 Rutgers Center for Transgender Health (RCTH) opened the first multidisciplinary center in the state. Keith led the effort. That same year he performed NJ’s first FTM phalloplasty. Patient sex is irrelevant to Keith. He also performed the state’s first vaginoplasty. Age does not matter either. Whatever is in front of him, he will mutilate it for man’s latest model. Now he does it at the practice he co-founded in 2025 after leaving Rutgers.
The transgender hub offers family resources. Families must be groomed to hand their children over for these atrocities.
Kaleidoscope and Youth and Family Pride Center are among over 100 programs run under Center for Family Services (CFS). With over 40M in federal funding, 30M is state funding, and 6M in contributions in 2024 they will coach, affirm, drug, and even house indoctrinated youth. PFLAG with its corporate backing has grown into the largest LGBTQ family and ally organization with multiple chapters in states across the country. They are now partnered with Gender Spectrum who retains a website for information purposes only after claiming recent financial problems. HiTops success is owed to the pharmaceutical giant Johnson & Johnson (J&J), headquartered in the state.
J&J Family Funding
HiTOPS and transgender social media influencers both have an affinity for middle schoolers. HiTops was first funded as a program by an organization called FamilyBorn in 1987. Betty Wold Johnson, an heir to the J&J family fortune, provided seed funding. Comprehensive sex eduction (CSE) initiatives soon launched with the first middle school programming in 1988.
HiTOPS was soon recognized by the World Health Organization and joined forces with the NJ Department of Health for CSE and HIV/AIDS initiatives. Independent NGO recognition came in 1997. By 2004 they co-sponsored the first NJ Gay Straight Alliance Forum with events often held in high schools. Things soon morphed into gay, straight, trans and more. The HiTOPS Trans Youth Group and T-NET for parents with indoctrinated “trans” kids launched in 2014.
In light of the family fortune it all makes sense. 100 years prior to the launch of HiTOPS Robert Wood Johnson I (1845-1910) and his brothers founded J&J in New Brunswick where its academic headquarters are today. A foundation was launched in 1936 later becoming the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation (RWJF) named for RWJ II who grew J&J into one of the world’s largest health corporations. Its foundation would become the largest private health foundation in the US.
In 1986 Middlesex Hospital took the family name becoming RWJ Memorial. The first acquisition came in 2016 creating the state’s largest healthcare system as well as one of the largest state employers. In 2017 PROUD Family Health at RWJ University Health Somerset was founded later becoming the Babs Siperstein PROUD Center. It was the first business in the state specializing in LGBTQ+ primary care. In 2018 a partnership formed with Rutgers giving birth to the largest academic health system. In 2020 PROUD Gender Center of NJ launched at RWJ University Hospital Rutgers.
Rutgers
Like VCU Rutgers women’s studies went inclusive long ago (2001), the medical fraud is baked into interoperable digital language, the campus coddles, and the clinic affirms, prescribes, and injects the indoctrinated. Most higher ed institutions that could once be trusted are doing this.
In 2012, “Introduction to Transgender Studies,” the first of its kind at the university, was taught by an FTM. “When you have programs and resources, people are more likely to come out and say, ‘hey, I’m not the only member of this community,’’’ claimed the director of the Center for Social Justice Education and LGBT Communities in an article at the time. There was only 1 “trans” student when the director arrived on campus 4 years prior. By 2012, there were 35. Rutgers has tens of thousands of students. Building gender neutral bathrooms, holding “Trans Week,” and the like are nonsensical. That is unless it really is about industry aspirations that feed on human flesh to operate in one of the sickest schemes since Mengele.
Whatever the early intentions of J&J it is clear that from baby powder, to cancer drugs, toxic injections and more, the idea of health has long been neglected for profits.
It should have been no surprise when in 2019 J&J hosted a Toronto panel on top surgery starring plastic surgeon Giancarlo McEvenue or when RWJF joined with Kaiser Permanente to help launch interoperable language across tech platforms with a “Gender Harmony” initiative. Sex is out. Gender is in. Industry gathers around.
What Now
Although Dowling’s YouTube channel is down and her public appearances to middle schoolers might be a thing of the past she continues her Point of Pride agenda to indoctrinate others. A 2023 Men’s Health interview is a bit more sobering than the mid aughts hype when she frequented covers and sat opposite Ellen DeGeneres. “It didn’t equal the gender euphoria I thought it would,” she says of her workouts to induce “man” muscles. Drugs helped no doubt but she still felt inferior. But Men’s Health claims the star found “gender euphoria” in the article title anyway. Dowling does not stop. She presses on. She does have a business after all.
In 2025 Point of Pride and the Jim Collins Foundation merged. The Jim Collins Foundation was started by confused females (FTMS) in 2008 in memory of a social worker and LGBTQ ally. It was the first NGO with a mission to fund gender affirming care. Now Point of Pride will carry on this work with an additional 100K in the trans surgery coffers.
A recent move speaks to Dowling’s response to the current trans critical landscape. She passed up other platforms for an app. The TRACE app launched in 2021. A search showed it had about 12K users and was in operation for several years. But now it is gone and no word is out on why.
Sex imposters were called TRACERS on the app. Drug and surgical updates (no nudity was yet permitted) could be documented in a photo album, transition reminders like harmful pharmaceutical schedules, seeing the gender doc, and connecting to other cult members were features.
LGBTQ investors Gaingels and Hopelab provided TRACE seed funding. Gaingels calls their business model “influencing social change through venture investing.” Disruptive technologies is closer to the mark. Hopelab begins their mission statement claiming they are advancing, “the mental health and well-being of young people through uncovering knowledge and evidence…” The tech cult needs a reminder. Evidence is not created in apps based on garbage. And there is a lot of garbage out there.
Dowling was scheduled to speak at the Behavioral Tech Conference just this week but that disappeared. What is next for Dowling is anyone’s guess but think again if you think there are not more initiatives in behavioral tech to whisk young people into “trans” land. Scroll through the portfolio of Gaingels and Hopelab. There are mountains of tech initiatives. Whether it is boom or bust for these initiatives is anyone’s guess but the “gender” inspired ones will take hoards of young people down with them on the way out the door.
Aside from the obvious drugs and surgeries, many parents are fast learning that every trace of their beautiful children is being vaporized by a digital cult under the guise of civil rights, gender identities, digital identities, and behavioral tech. They do not have to declare “trans.” It is happening across the board. The medical industry and their political arm rely on disruptive digital technologies that undermine normal family function, health, and wellbeing. Fixes will not come from mental disruptive health apps or from the mental health field at all but in restoring the primacy of American families and human connection.
I have no crystal ball only share that reinstituting sanity is a long way off. Hold your children tight even when its hard. Forgo college for a job, community college classes, or other adventures. Delete apps and put down the tech. Go on hikes, visit historical sites, volunteer, garden, or learn a new skill. Find other things because the storm continues to gather.
















If "gender affirming care" is so good, then why is this woman dead because of it? https://lucyleader.substack.com/p/rip-griffin-sivret
Excellent post!